Picture this: you’ve just walked down the aisle, elated to finally be married to the love of your life. The ceremony has gone off without a hitch and as you’re about to exchange rings with your spouse-to-be, someone stands up and objects.
What could this mean for your big day? Read on to find out what could happen if someone objects at your wedding. Spoiler alert: it’s not good news…
What is an Objection and Why do They Happen at Weddings?
At a wedding, an objection is when someone speaks up during the ceremony to object to the marriage. This can happen for a variety of reasons, but usually, it has to do with a belief that the couple is not actually marrying of their own free will.
For example, someone might object if they believe one of the spouses is being pressured into the marriage against their will. Objections can also be raised if there are concerns about whether the couple is actually eligible to marry, such as if they’re too closely related or if one of them is already married.
In some cases, objections may also be raised for religious reasons. Whatever the reason, an objection can be a big interruption to a wedding ceremony. If someone objects, the officiant will usually ask if there are any other objections and then proceed with the wedding if none are raised.
How to Deal with Objections from Guests
If someone objects to your wedding, the first thing you should do is try to calm down and understand the situation. It can be difficult to stay calm at the moment, but it is important to remember that objections are usually not personal.
Once you have calmed down, there are a few different options for dealing with an objection from a guest. The first is to simply ignore the objection and continue with the wedding as planned. This may not be the best option if the objection is valid, but it is often the easiest way to deal with an objection in the moment.
Another option is to speak with the person who objected and try to resolve the issue. This can be a good option if the objection is based on a misunderstanding or if the person has valid concerns.
Finally, you can choose to stop the wedding and address the objection head-on. This may be necessary if the objection is serious or if it is preventing the wedding from proceeding.
While objections at weddings are relatively rare, they can still cause problems for the happy couple. In some cases, objections can lead to wedding cancellations or delays. In other cases, they can cause arguments and bad feelings between the guests.
It is important to remember that objections are usually not personal. However, if you do find yourself in the middle of an objection, try to stay calm and resolve the issue as quickly as possible. Wedding days are meant to be special and memorable, so don’t let an objection ruin yours.