As 2020 draws to a close after a tough year, it might be time to start the search for Mrs. Right in 2021. Here we look at some simple but proven tips to help in your quest to get meet the woman of your dreams:
1. Just Stop Trying
One of the most important things we believe is to simply take the pressure off and quit trying too hard. Women are much more likely to be attracted to someone who is cool, calm, collected, and most importantly, not coming across as desperate. Like men, women also like a challenge too – so it can often pay just to be yourself and not try too hard, just relax!
2. Get Noticed
Pay a bit more attention to how you look. Whether this means upgrading the wardrobe or personal grooming, standing out can really pay dividends. This might involve a nice tailored suit, getting the favorite tattoo you’ve always wanted, or just a new hairstyle.
3. Start the Conversation
Nothing will ever happen if you don’t try and break the ice in some way. One of the major downfalls for a lot of guys is that they give up before they’ve even started. Don’t be held back by negative thoughts or limiting beliefs, thinking she won’t be interested, etc. Stay positive and just go for it! It’s probably worth planning what you will say beforehand, or if you feel comfortable then just let it flow naturally.
4. The Approach
One of the most important things is the first impression you make when trying to meet a new girlfriend. This is where your mindset comes in. Make sure you are as relaxed as possible, calm, and composed. Imagine you are talking to a supermarket worker for example – this should probably help you to maintain composure and to come across as self-assured and confident.
5. Drop in a Compliment
Every woman likes compliments, so you really can’t go wrong during your first meeting with a compliment on two. The only caution here is to not go overboard. There’s a really fine line between confidence and being cheesy. You also don’t want your date to be to feel awkward too, so make sure it’s something light but nice.
6. Open Questions
When you are speaking to your date to be, you might also want to try and get here to speak about herself as much as possible. Not only does this give you more ideas for conversation by finding out more about here, but people generally also enjoy talking about themselves. This is where open-ended questions are a good idea and not something that can be answered with a simple ‘yes’ or ‘no’.
Here we look at some of the most basic things for trying to find yourself a new partner or girlfriend, but this is definitely a good start for anyone looking to meet a girl.