I was in awe when I stumbled upon this 101+ Romantic Things To Do With Your LifeMate List. Not only because there are 101+ romantic gestures out there but also because someone actually had time to write down a 101+ list. Wheww! I appreciate all that effort, so I think it’s just a nice gesture to actually post the list and let everyone know about it.

FYI: I agree with some of them. Some of them are a little unrealistic. But you already know all that well. I hope so, anyway :).

  1. Watch the sunset together.
  2. Take showers together.
  3. Back rubs/massages.
  4. Listen to classical music and cuddle in the dark or with black light.
  5. French Kiss.
  6. Hold your wife with hands inside the back of her shirt.
  7. Whisper to each other.
  8. Cook for each other.
  9. Skinny dip (discreetly).
  10. Make out in the rain.
  11. Dress each other.
  12. Undress each other.
  13. Kiss every part of your wife’s body.
  14. Hold hands.
  15. Sleep together. (Actually, sleep with each other… not sex)
  16. One word… Foreplay.
  17. Sit and talk.
  18. Buy gifts for each other.
  19. Roses.
  20. Wear your lifemate’s favorite cologne/perfume every time you’re together.
  21. Wear your husband’s clothes.
  22. Find a nice secluded place to lie and watch the stars.
  23. Incense/candles/oils/blacklights, and music make for great cuddling/sex.
  24. Kiss at every chance you get.
  25. Don’t wear underwear, and let them find out.
  26. Kinky is bad… Blindfolds are good.
  27. Lightly kiss their collarbone and their jawbone just below the ear, then whisper, “I love you.”
  28. Bubble baths.
  29. . Go for a long walk down the beach at midnight.
  30. Make love.
  31. Write poetry for each other.
  32. Kiss and smell your wife’s hair.
  33. Hugs are universal medicine.
  34. Say “I love you” only when you mean it, and make sure they know you mean it.
  35. Give random gifts of flowers/candy/poetry, etc.
  36. Tell your wife that she’s the only girl you ever want. Don’t lie.
  37. Spend every second possible together.
  38. Tell your wife that she doesn’t have to do anything she doesn’t want to. And mean it.
  39. Look into each other’s eyes.
  40. Very lightly push up your wife’s chin, look into her eyes, tell her you love her, and kiss her lightly.
  41. Talk to each other using only body language and your eyes.
  42. When in public, they flirt with each other.
  43. Walk behind your wife and put your hands in her front pockets.
  44. Put love notes in your lifemate’s pockets when they aren’t looking.
  45. Clothes are no fun.
  46. Buy your wife a ring.
  47. Keep something special of your wife’s/your husband’s somewhere where you see it every day.
  48. Sing to each other.
  49. Read to each other.
  50. PDA = Public Displays of Affection.
  51. Take advantage of any time alone together.
  52. Tell your wife about how you answered every question in math with her name. (Assuming you’re continuing your education).
  53. Draw. (If you can.)
  54. Let your wife sit on your lap.
  55. Go hiking and camp out together in the woods or on a mountain.
  56. Lips were made for kissing. So were eyes, fingers, cheeks, collarbones, hands, and ears.
  57. Kiss your wife’s stomach.
  58. Always hold your wife around her hips/sides.
  59. Husbands like half-shirts.
  60. Take your wife to dinner and make the dinner for two deals.
  61. Spaghetti… (Ever see Lady and the Tramp?)
  62. Hold your wife’s hand, stare into her eyes, kiss her hand, and then put it over your heart.
  63. Unless you can feel their heart beating, you aren’t close enough.
  64. Dance together.
  65. Sit in front of a roaring fire and make out/make love.
  66. Tell your lifemate you love the way they look right after they’ve fallen asleep, with their head in your lap.
  67. Carry your wife to bed.
  68. Waterbeds are fun.
  69. You figure it out.
  70. Do cute things like write “I love you” in a note so that they have to look in the mirror to read it.
  71. Break every one of your ‘safe’ relationship rules for your lifemate.
  72. Make excuses to call your lifemate repeatedly in one day.
  73. Even if you are really busy doing something, go out of your way to call and say “I love you”.
  74. Call from your business trip to tell your lifemate you were thing about them.
  75. Remember your dreams and tell your lifemate about them.
  76. Drive home from work just to see your lifemate before turning around and going back to a business meeting in the evening.
  77. Sit in your car in the driveway, honk, then blow your lifemate a kiss as you leave for work.
  78. Tell each other your most sacred secrets/fears.
  79. Share your deepest convictions.
  80. Be Prince/Princess Charming to your lifemate’s parents.
  81. Act out mutual fantasies together. (Not necessarily sexual)
  82. Brush your wife’s hair out of her face for her.
  83. Stay up all night to think of 101 ways to be sweet to your lifemate.
  84. Hang out with your lifemate’s friends, too.
  85. Learn to listen.
  86. Take your wife to see a romantic movie and remember the parts she liked.
  87. Cuddle together under a full moon on a clear night.
  88. Learn from each other, and don’t make the same mistakes twice.
  89. Everyone deserves a second chance.
  90. Describe the joy you feel just to be with your lifemate.
  91. Make sacrifices for each other.
  92. Really love each other.
  93. Write a fictional story about how you met/fell in love, etc., and give it to your lifemate.
  94. Let there never be a second during any given day that you aren’t thinking about them, and make sure they know it.
  95. Hot tubs are great.
  96. Learn to say sweet things in foreign languages, including sign language.
  97. Dedicate songs to them on the radio.
  98. Fall asleep on the phone with each other.
  99. Sleep naked together.
  100. Stand up for your lifemate when someone says unkind things about them.
  101. Never forget the kiss goodnight. And always remember to say, “Sweet dreams.”
  102. Groom your spouse. Ask to brush your wife’s hair when she gets out of the shower. Shave your husband’s face.
  103. A Short Story – You know the guys that go around in restaurants and bars with the basket of roses selling them? My husband sought him out one evening before coming home from work, bought the entire basket of roses, and left them on my doorstep, then called me and told me to go to the front door! That was so romantic!
  104. Be waiting at your mates’ car when they get off work, out of the beauty salon, get done grocery shopping… be creative!
  105. Buy 11 real roses and one fake one… leave a note that says I’ll love you until the last rose dies… -Mark Ansley
  106. Kiss your mate on their forehead.
  107. While your lifemate is out, put a bag of Hershey hugs on the door knob. Put rose peddles mixed with Hershey’s kisses on the floor leading to the bathroom with lights off. Candles for your light lined up all the way to the bathroom, also. Two dozen roses lined all over the bathtub with a card in plain view. And on the card, write,” Now that I had hugged u before u walked in the door, kissed the ground that you walked on, and showered you with roses. Will you be mine 4-ever.” – Joseph Wade Stepp
  108. I am in the military, so for anyone that has a long-distance relationship with their spouse. They can create a jewelry box. You can buy all you need at an inexpensive gift shop store and decorate it with the things she likes to send you in her letter or emails, for example, hearts and stars and stick them all over the box. Then inside the box, you can write a thought for every day of what you remember as your great memories with her in your relationship, things you like about her, reasons why you fell in love with her, or even things you want to plan with her for the future. Then tell her when she receives this magic box whenever she feels lonely like me when I am not with her or thinks of what I am thinking about throughout the day, she can open the box and be reminded that she is all I am thinking about.
  109. Begin with an uninflated latex balloon and insert some confetti, a heartfelt message for your partner, and your picture inside. Bring the balloon, with these items inside, to a balloon store and ask them to fill it with helium. Then, tie a pin and a note saying “Please pop” to the balloon’s string. Place this surprise next to your partner’s bed before they wake up in the morning. My husband really enjoyed this romantic action.
  110. Post a Love note to her, even if she is with you, using her office/house address or care of her friend’s postal address.
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